*💗HUSBAND* *💗SOULMATE*

Few days ago, a news struck me quite badly…it really affected me so much so that I could not sleep for several nights…The Death of a very dearest sister’s husband…

This incident helped me to ponder about this relationship in a very different way…

💓💓 Generally women are not quite happy the way their husbands are…most of our lives, we just try to change them as per our wishes…we don’t really appreciate the small things they do for us and instead most of the times, we are just being ungrateful and complaining of having a husband who don’t understand us…In addition, we always compare our husbands with others’ and we always think that “SHE” has such a nice and better husband than ours…

Now just for a second, imagine ourselves in the same shoes like the “sister” whose husband passed away…If you really deeply imagine yourself in such a situation, I am sure you will start crying your heart out…the thought of being a widow will give you all goosebumps…

❤ What we don’t understand is that having a HUSBAND is like having a strong ROOF on our heads…He is our strength, He is our pride, He is the pillar of our house, He is our protection, He is the reason of our adornments…so much so that the mourning over a death in Islam is just 3 days but it is 4 months and 10 days for a woman whose husband dies…even Allaah swt knows that this is an unbearable loss for a woman to go back to a normal life so soon…

Death is a bitter reality for all of us and we do not know who will go first among us…Let’s make the best out of our married lives…

Sometimes we take things for granted in our marriage and we never really understand or appreciate them until they are gone… So let’s take baby steps one at a time and start appreciating our husbands for every small things they do for us…before it gets too late…💝

⭐-be it providing for us financially
⭐-going grocery shopping with us
⭐-helping us with the house chores
⭐-helping with children
⭐taking us to meet our parents
⭐taking us out for dinner
⭐going shopping for us
-standing up for us in front of his family
⭐-taking us for Hajj or Umrah
⭐-paying our Zakat
⭐or even if they are just listening to our whining etc.

And let’s stop comparing our relationships to the ones being projected on social media etc…

By this way, we completely ruin and stop appreciating the special and beautiful things we have in our relationship…
Remember THE BOND BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND IS SPECIAL AND FOREVER…that’s why Allaah swt chose you two to be together in this world and in the hereafter too in sha Allaah….

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🤲 May Allaah swt grant us all with good righteous husbands…
May Allaah swt fill our hearts with love, care and respect for our husbands and may their hearts be filled with love, care and respect for us…
May we be the reason of comfort for their hearts and May they be the reason of comfort for our hearts…
May we become the coolness of their eyes and May they become the coolness of our eyes…
May we make them happy and satisfied when they look at us and may they make us happy when we look at them…
May we be reunited with our spouses in Jannah-ul-Firdaus…

Ameen ya Rab ul Alameen…