LOVE GOSSIP?

If a mutual friend is backbiting about your friend or sister in Islam have enough eeman to tell them to stop and have enough integrity to not listen to anyone talking nonsense behind your friend’s back.

Make yourself the type of Muslimah everyone is scared to backbite infront of because they know you will not entertain women tearing apart other women and for a simple fact that there is always two sides to every story. If you step in a gathering sisters who backbite need to become aware that you will call them out or that you will not stay in that gathering.
(Online and Ofline)

Help people talk to each other Islamically and sort their own issues. Don’t become a one sided referee and don’t think you deserve to judge one party over another.

Not your monkeys not your circus. (repeat 3xtimes)

You will please Allah this way, you will save yourself from sins of backbiting and HELLFIRE, you will help two friends sort their issues out on their own and you will probably help strengthen someone’s friendship than tear two friends apart.
Never hype any sister against another.

Teach her to expect good, teach her to give excuses and not assume things, teach her to be vulnerable and open with the person she has issues with.

Gossip is interesting and fun but it is eventually going to lead you to fire. Don’t talk about people in a way you would never dare to talk about infront of them. Be a good Muslimah online and ofline. On Facebook and on whatsapp. Infront of people and most importantly behind them when Allah is your witness.

❝neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who forgives and accepts repentance, Most Merciful❞
{Surah Al Hujurat 49: Verse 12}

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ) said: “Do you know what gheebah (backbiting) is?” They said, “Allah and His Messenger know best.” He said, “Saying something about your brother that he dislikes.” It was said, “What if what I say about my brother is true?” He said, “If what you say is true then you have backbitten about him, and if it is not true, then you have slandered him.”
[Sahih Muslim]

Here are few topics you can talk about instead of talking about women behind their backs:

– Future Goals.
– Quran Goals.
– New healthy recipes.
– New documentaries to watch. Watch them together and discuss.
– Read a book and discuss how life changing that book was.
– Come up with ideas to help in need in your community.
– Check up on each others Salaah.
– Fitness regimens.
– A destination you want to travel and why.
– Politics.
– Feminism.
– Patriarchy.
– Equal pay for women.
– Rights of Children.
– How to fight child sex trafficking.
– Pop culture and its effects on youth.
– How to start daily habits of conserving water.
The topics are endless…..

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , said, “You will find that the worst of people in the sight of Allah on the Day of Rising will be the two-faced person who presents one face to a group of people and another face to a different group of people.”