Surah Ash-Sharh â The Relief
April 30, 2019Eight Major Events in Ramadan First Is Quran
May 7, 2019
*đHUSBAND* *đSOULMATE*
Few days ago, a news struck me quite badlyâŚit really affected me so much so that I could not sleep for several nightsâŚThe Death of a very dearest sisterâs husbandâŚ
This incident helped me to ponder about this relationship in a very different wayâŚ
đđ Generally women are not quite happy the way their husbands areâŚmost of our lives, we just try to change them as per our wishesâŚwe donât really appreciate the small things they do for us and instead most of the times, we are just being ungrateful and complaining of having a husband who donât understand usâŚIn addition, we always compare our husbands with othersâ and we always think that âSHEâ has such a nice and better husband than oursâŚ
Now just for a second, imagine ourselves in the same shoes like the âsisterâ whose husband passed awayâŚIf you really deeply imagine yourself in such a situation, I am sure you will start crying your heart outâŚthe thought of being a widow will give you all goosebumpsâŚ
â¤Â What we donât understand is that having a HUSBAND is like having a strong ROOF on our headsâŚHe is our strength, He is our pride, He is the pillar of our house, He is our protection, He is the reason of our adornmentsâŚso much so that the mourning over a death in Islam is just 3 days but it is 4 months and 10 days for a woman whose husband diesâŚeven Allaah swt knows that this is an unbearable loss for a woman to go back to a normal life so soonâŚ
Death is a bitter reality for all of us and we do not know who will go first among usâŚLetâs make the best out of our married livesâŚ
Sometimes we take things for granted in our marriage and we never really understand or appreciate them until they are gone⌠So letâs take baby steps one at a time and start appreciating our husbands for every small things they do for usâŚbefore it gets too lateâŚđ
â-be it providing for us financially
â-going grocery shopping with us
â-helping us with the house chores
â-helping with children
âtaking us to meet our parents
âtaking us out for dinner
âgoing shopping for us
-standing up for us in front of his family
â-taking us for Hajj or Umrah
â-paying our Zakat
âor even if they are just listening to our whining etc.
And let’s stop comparing our relationships to the ones being projected on social media etc…
By this way, we completely ruin and stop appreciating the special and beautiful things we have in our relationship…
Remember THE BOND BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND IS SPECIAL AND FOREVER…that’s why Allaah swt chose you two to be together in this world and in the hereafter too in sha Allaah….
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đ¤˛Â May Allaah swt grant us all with good righteous husbandsâŚ
May Allaah swt fill our hearts with love, care and respect for our husbands and may their hearts be filled with love, care and respect for usâŚ
May we be the reason of comfort for their hearts and May they be the reason of comfort for our heartsâŚ
May we become the coolness of their eyes and May they become the coolness of our eyesâŚ
May we make them happy and satisfied when they look at us and may they make us happy when we look at themâŚ
May we be reunited with our spouses in Jannah-ul-Firdaus…
Ameen ya Rab ul AlameenâŚ